The Importance of a Caring Network

Ok, maybe our care-giving network isn't so big, but J and I have secured a reliable, caring network of friends who always help when it matters most, so today, I dedicate this post to them.

My husband and I are about to leave for a four (or five) day trip to see my maternal aunt and family in Maryland. We decided to take only one trip this summer because we wanted to invest in a few projects around the house. That left us with a choice; visit family that we love but see only once or twice a year, or head to the shore.

family picture from last year's visit (May 2010)

We chose family. See, visiting family brings quite a few perks with it. Not only do I adore my aunt, uncle, and cousins, but they pamper us when we visit. My aunt makes nice family dinners every evening, ensures that we have quiet, comfortable privacy in a guest room, and is all around accommodating. She'd make a great B&B host!

Annapolis (May 2010)

They also live relatively close to Washington, D.C. and Baltimore, which means there are myriad possibilities for tourism and entertainment. Last year, we visited the Naval Academy and surrounding shops in Annapolis as well as the National Zoo. Though neither of us was thrilled with riding the metro, we really enjoyed ourselves. This year, we plan to go to the Smithsonian Natural History Museum, the Library of Congress, and the National Aquarium and Inner Harbor in Baltimore.

Lisa and Sarah - Bridesmaids in my wedding (October 2009)

So while J and I are on a much deserved holiday, our friends have agreed to pitch in and help us. Not only are our good friends Mike and Lisa (you might remember them from this post) watching our largest dog Fenris for us, but Lisa has agreed to be a contact for mom in case she needs anything while we're gone. My good friend Sarah, whose wedding is in just two weeks, has also agreed to serve as a contact. Mom and Dad can manage without us for a few days, but it's comforting for both them and us to know they can reach out to someone nearby when they need to.

I'm fortunate to have such good friends, and I only hope I can show them just how much I appreciate all they are and all they do. They've embraced my family as part of our friendship, and that is a gift beyond measure.